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>For LSCI Trainers and practitioners–as well as Survivor fans everywhere–here is a great example of a Timeline, Central Issue and Reality Rub, conducted by Jeff Probst at tribal council!  The best part is the final minute of the clip.  Let me know what you think!

http://www.cbs.com/e/TQ3ub1_xSBxvjymg2KzyMngJgFkfChti/cbs/1/

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>While empathizing with the victims of bullying comes naturally to most of us, this article, originally posted on Parentella.com, shows how understanding the roots of a bully’s rage can benefit us all:

Empathy for the Bully?

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>The text of my post below was originally published on the website Parents are Important.  I have been doing a lot of research and writing lately on the subject of girl bullying in the elementary school years–including focusing on ethical use of technology for youngsters: 

4 Rules for Ensuring Ethical Cell Phone Use by Kids

There is much debate these days among professionals and parents about the “right” age for youngsters to begin carrying a cell phone. From “safety” to “convenience” and even the not-to-be-dismissed “fitting in with peers” arguments, what follows are four basic guidelines parents may want to consider, to set the tone for their kids’ “ethical” cell phone use:

1. Set Clear Guidelines on Usage

The most common reason cited by parents for giving their child a cell phone (or everyday use of one) is safety. Parents want to be able to get in touch with their kids at any point in the day and also want to be accessible when their kids need to initiate contact. On the other hand, the overwhelming majority of young people want cell phones in order to call and text their peers. When allowing a child to use a cell phone, be sure to set clear usage guidelines. Don’t think it overkill to put the rules in writing! Consider the specifics that are right for your family, in terms of:

•Who your child is allowed to call?

•How many minutes is he allowed to use each month?

•Is your child permitted to text? How many texts can be sent per day/week/month?

•Who pays the monthly cell phone bill?

•What are the consequences for violating the agreed upon guidelines?

2. Set Clear Guidelines on Etiquette

When the internet first became a powerful force in the lives of kids, the term “netiquette” was coined to describe ethical ways to interact while online. Though no equivalent phrase has yet emerged for cell phone use (cell-iquette??), it is important to talk to kids about how to treat others while texting. For example:

•Would I say the words I am texting to a person’s face?

•What would my parents think if they read this text?

•Could this photo I am sending cause hurt or embarrassment to me, my friends, my family, or anyone else?

•Can my text be taken out of context and used to hurt me or someone else?

Cell phones are a prime tool of bullying and relational aggression among young people, so being clear that texts and phone calls are not to be used as tools of gossip, exclusion, embarrassment, etc. is essential.

3. Privacy Guidelines

Parents are advised to let their kids know that they maintain the right to access their child’s cell phones at any time. While all parents want to trust their children, cell phones are such tempting tools for kids to engage in risky behavior that it is important for parents to let their kids know upfront that they will be reading texts, reviewing MMS messages, scrutinizing monthly bills, and engaging in any other kind of oversight that underscores the importance of ethical cell phone usage by kids.

4. Know the Lingo

Are you familiar with these text-friendly acronyms?

•LOL

•JK

•BRB

•ATM

Texting has a language all of its own. Laugh out Loud (LOL), Just Kidding (JK), and Be Right Back (BRB) are common enough, but while most parents take for granted that ATM stands for an Automatic Teller Machine, kids can tell you that it is more likely to refer to their being “at the mall.” The more parents educate themselves about the lingo their kids are using, the better able they are to monitor cell phone use and abuse

>Thanks to hundreds of hands working together last month, Love Drop #3 was a success! The organization raised over $2,800 for Katie, on top of dozens of gifts and services sent in from all across the country. More importantly, Love Drop surprised her with 15+ friends who literally showed up at her house to celebrate with her 🙂 It was incredible.

You can watch the inspiring Love Drop video here.

Love Drop #4 to be posted tomorrow…stay tuned!

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