Assertive Anger Expression for Kids: Arguing vs. Disagreeing
Do your children bicker? Mine sure do. In fact, asking if they bicker is like asking if they breathe; it comes so naturally to them that some days it seems like a life-sustaining function. I try to remind myself that sibling rivalry, while not actually critical to survival, is at least a great teacher for kids, as they practice life skills like assertiveness, negotiation, and forgiveness.
Though I put great effort into not being a constant family mediator, one of the most effective lessons I was ever able to pass on mid-conflict was teaching my daughters the difference between disagreeing and arguing.
For more information on skills and strategies to help children express anger in assertive, relationship-enhancing ways, please check out my latest book, to be released this July: How to Be Angry: An Assertive Anger Expression Group Guide for Kids and Teens
This entry was posted by signewhitson on June 6, 2011 at 2:33 pm, and is filed under assertiveness, Being a Mom, kids, Parenting, sibling. Follow any responses to this post through RSS 2.0. You can leave a response or trackback from your own site.
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